L'esprit de l'escalier



22 years of age | Nursing Grad | AREMT | Ordinary Muggle | Book Enthusiast | Dog lover | Chef in my own world | Techie | Anti Social | Future Flight Paramedic

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1. If you like someone, wait.
2. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too.
3. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before.
4. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy.
5. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up.
6. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm.
7. Meet someone new, even just a friend.
8. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them.
9. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in.
10. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are.
11. Listen to new music.
12. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them.
13. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day.
14. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section.
15. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad.
16. Make new memories.
17. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience.
18. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people.
19. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time.
20. Learn to love every bit of yourself.
How to feel better and become better by me (x)

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Still, this was on the order of a minor miracle — running across someone you express your feelings to so clearly, so completely. Most people go their entire lives without meeting a person like that. It would have been a mistake to label this “love.” It was more like total empathy.
Haruki Murakami, Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman (via allthegorybits)
Just for once, I hope that my absence made them feel lonely.
Kim Tan (김탄), from The Heirs (상속자들)

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I’m in love with the idea of you loving me
Two people don’t fall in love because they sleep in the same bed, but because they share the same dreams.
Mark Amend (via psych-facts)

SM BF Earthquake Drill this morning. 

You will be shocked, kids, when you discover how easy it is in life to part ways with people forever.

That’s why, when you find someone you want to keep around, you do something about it.
How I Met Your Mother (via itscherryamber)

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You had me at a point where I would’ve left the entire world behind for you.

2:03am, I really loved you that much. (via tahom)

I still would.

(via stayinsclitude)

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Not everyone who comes into your life, came wanting to stay. Same way that not everyone that’s gone, wanted to leave.
The fault is really in our stars? (via innocentium)

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First time that I was stopped by a train-crossing boom while driving, so I asked my sister to take a picture using my phone. 

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